Six habits to
breakout from:
1. Clinging to the
status quo. Fighting change uses up
energy you could put to better use. It's
like trying to cling to a rock as a tsunami
roarsin
instead running for high ground. One of the
toughest
laws of the universe tells us, "you either expand, or
you contract." You can't just
hover; you'll
crash.
2. Blaming. The
fixed idea that someone else determines
the outcome of your life blocks
creativity. It sucks
the life force right out of you. The more you are
will to be responsible for,
the more freedom you
have.
3. Resenting the
success of others. It is very hard to attract
to yourself what you condemn in
others.
4. Complaining. A
little whining goes a long way. It turns
people off. Not only that, it keeps
your focus on what
you don't want. What you focus on grows!
5. Fear. Many people
actually keep themselves in a state
of fear and anxiety on purpose due to
the
misguided belief that fear will help them avoid danger.
Fear bombards their bodies with
adrenalin and wears
them out to the point of giving up.
6. Shame. The belief
that there is something shameful about loss
and hardship is prevalent.
I've explored it with
lots of people. It has never proved true.
Seven habits to
cultivate:
1. Flexibility: You
may have to move, downsize or expand.
It can be a nightmare (if you do
not break out
from the habits above) or a great adventure.
Your choice.
2. Gratitude: Being
aware of the miracles around us natures
our sense of wonder. Feeling
grateful alters
your private version of reality from one of lack to
one of abundance and
blessings.
3. Looking for
opportunities: One of my favorite quotes is,
"What you see is mostly what you
look for." Keep
an eye out for open doors in places you might
not expect to find them.
4. Asking for help:
Often a simple shame-blame-and-complaint-free request brings big
benefits. Friends,
family and Facebook Friends are often glad to
provide introductions, useful
advice, leads and other
assistance if they know what you are looking
for.
5. Learning: A
return to school, some training in your
field, working with a coach, a how-to
book, a master
mind group, an exciting hour with Google - just for
starts! So much to learn, so
little time. Learning about how
to improve your financial health is fun and
profitable.
6. Desire: Use your
desire as a sense of direction. Follow it
and your intense curiosity.
7. Break out from
Limiting Beliefs: When you develop
the habit of challenging any belief that
blocks
happiness and success you move out of the prison
of lack into the space of miracles.
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